How to throw a party that is not littered with drunk guests. Tresa Mathai shares some tips.
What do all great parties have in common? Having recently attended more than a couple of parties my reply might seem biased. I believe that a good party is a blend of great company, yummy food, good music and last of all but not the least - decent guests. Instances when a fun gathering has been messed up because of persons getting alcohol intoxicated (which is ok enough) and out of control (not ok!) have been known to put hiccups in an otherwise fun atmosphere.
Check out these tips that have been put together with the general consensus of party regulars. It’s a good idea to run through this list before throwing or attending a party.
Planning The Party
Prepare plenty of food so that guests do not drink on empty stomachs.
Avoid too many salty snacks, which tend to make people thirsty and
drink more.
Offer a variety of non-alcoholic beverages for those who prefer not to drink alcohol.
· If preparing an alcoholic punch, use a non-carbonated base like fruit juice. Alcohol is absorbed into the blood stream faster with a carbonated base. Ask guests to appoint a designated driver before the evening begins. This person drinks only non-alcoholic beverages to ensure that friends or loved ones get home safely. Sounds too fussy? Better fussy and alive than a drunk driving statistic.
Be honest when inviting guests who are known to drink to excess, talk to them!
If possible invite guests who are compatible so that no one feels left out of the crowd. Lonely or unfriendly people often drink to excess.
During The Party
Don't let guests mix their own drinks. Choosing a reliable "bartender" will help you keep track of the size and number of drinks that guests consume.
Never force a drink on someone! DO NOT push drinks!!! Do realize that drinking at a party is not mandatory for having a good time.
If possible close the bar 90 minutes before the party ends and serve a great dessert treat with coffee. Remember that only time (about an hour) sobers someone who has been drinking.
If, despite your efforts, some of your guests have had too much to drink, drive them home, arrange for a ride with another guest who is sober, call a taxi, or if you are of a generous disposition invite them to stay over.
Never serve alcohol to someone under the legal drinking age, and never ask children to serve alcohol at parties.
Familiarity with the host or the other guests doesn’t excuse excesses.
Some might call it being exceedingly formal, I say when you care for someone you can go that extra mile. If your are still unconvinced, think of the old adage, “treat others as you wish to be treated”.
